drm_gem: add mutex to drm_gem_object.gpuva

drm_gem: add mutex to drm_gem_object.gpuva

There are two main ways that GPUVM might be used:

* staged mode, where VM_BIND ioctls update the GPUVM immediately so that
  the GPUVM reflects the state of the VM *including* staged changes that
  are not yet applied to the GPU's virtual address space.
* immediate mode, where the GPUVM state is updated during run_job(),
  i.e., in the DMA fence signalling critical path, to ensure that the
  GPUVM and the GPU's virtual address space has the same state at all
  times.

Currently, only Panthor uses GPUVM in immediate mode, but the Rust
drivers Tyr and Nova will also use GPUVM in immediate mode, so it is
worth to support both staged and immediate mode well in GPUVM. To use
immediate mode, the GEMs gpuva list must be modified during the fence
signalling path, which means that it must be protected by a lock that is
fence signalling safe.

For this reason, a mutex is added to struct drm_gem_object that is
intended to achieve this purpose. Adding it directly in the GEM object
both makes it easier to use GPUVM in immediate mode, but also makes it
possible to take the gpuva lock from core drm code.

As a follow-up, another change that should probably be made to support
immediate mode is a mechanism to postpone cleanup of vm_bo objects, as
dropping a vm_bo object in the fence signalling path is problematic for
two reasons:

* When using DRM_GPUVM_RESV_PROTECTED, you cannot remove the vm_bo from
  the extobj/evicted lists during the fence signalling path.
* Dropping a vm_bo could lead to the GEM object getting destroyed.
  The requirement that GEM object cleanup is fence signalling safe is
  dubious and likely to be violated in practice.

Panthor already has its own custom implementation of postponing vm_bo
cleanup.

Reviewed-by: Boris Brezillon <boris.brezillon@collabora.com>
Signed-off-by: Alice Ryhl <aliceryhl@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250827-gpuva-mutex-in-gem-v3-1-bd89f5a82c0d@google.com
Signed-off-by: Danilo Krummrich <dakr@kernel.org>