Merge branch 'bonding-fix-xfrm-offload-bugs'

Nikolay Aleksandrov says:

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bonding: fix xfrm offload bugs

I noticed these problems while reviewing a bond xfrm patch recently.
The fixes are straight-forward, please review carefully the last one
because it has side-effects. This set has passed bond's selftests
and my custom bond stress tests which crash without these fixes.

Note the first patch is not critical, but it simplifies the next fix.
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Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20240816114813.326645-1-razor@blackwall.org
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>