Currently it is possible to do just about everything with the arp table
from user space except treat an entry like you are using it.  To that end
implement and a flag NTF_USE that when set in a netwlink update request
treats the neighbour table entry like the kernel does on the output path.
This allows user space applications to share the kernel's arp cache.
Signed-off-by: Eric Biederman <ebiederm@aristanetworks.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
  *     Neighbor Cache Entry Flags
  */
 
+#define NTF_USE                0x01
 #define NTF_PROXY      0x08    /* == ATF_PUBL */
 #define NTF_ROUTER     0x80
 
 
                                flags &= ~NEIGH_UPDATE_F_OVERRIDE;
                }
 
-               err = neigh_update(neigh, lladdr, ndm->ndm_state, flags);
+               if (ndm->ndm_flags & NTF_USE) {
+                       neigh_event_send(neigh, NULL);
+                       err = 0;
+               } else
+                       err = neigh_update(neigh, lladdr, ndm->ndm_state, flags);
                neigh_release(neigh);
                goto out_dev_put;
        }