NFS: use a hash table for delegation lookup

NFS: use a hash table for delegation lookup

nfs_delegation_find_inode currently has to walk the entire list of
delegations per inode, which can become pretty large, and can become even
larger when increasing the delegation watermark.

Add a hash table to speed up the delegation lookup, sized as a fraction
of the delegation watermark.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250718081509.2607553-6-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>