xfs: allow queued realtime intents to drain before scrubbing

xfs: allow queued realtime intents to drain before scrubbing

When a writer thread executes a chain of log intent items for the
realtime volume, the ILOCKs taken during each step are for each rt
metadata file, not the entire rt volume itself.  Although scrub takes
all rt metadata ILOCKs, this isn't sufficient to guard against scrub
checking the rt volume while that writer thread is in the middle of
finishing a chain because there's no higher level locking primitive
guarding the realtime volume.

When there's a collision, cross-referencing between data structures
(e.g. rtrmapbt and rtrefcountbt) yields false corruption events; if
repair is running, this results in incorrect repairs, which is
catastrophic.

Fix this by adding to the mount structure the same drain that we use to
protect scrub against concurrent AG updates, but this time for the
realtime volume.

[Contains a few cleanups from hch]

Cc: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>