ethtool: Centralise validation of ETHTOOL_{G, S}RXFHINDIR parameters

ethtool: Centralise validation of ETHTOOL_{G, S}RXFHINDIR parameters

Add a new ethtool operation (get_rxfh_indir_size) to get the
indirectional table size.  Use this to validate the user buffer size
before calling get_rxfh_indir or set_rxfh_indir.  Use get_rxnfc to get
the number of RX rings, and validate the contents of the new
indirection table before calling set_rxfh_indir.  Remove this
validation from drivers.

(backported from upstream commit 7850f63f1620512631445b901ae11cd149e7375c)
Signed-off-by: Ben Hutchings <bhutchings@solarflare.com>
Acked-by: Dimitris Michailidis <dm@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: Joe Jin <joe.jin@oracle.com>