sched: act_ct: avoid -Wflex-array-member-not-at-end warning

sched: act_ct: avoid -Wflex-array-member-not-at-end warning

-Wflex-array-member-not-at-end was introduced in GCC-14, and we are
getting ready to enable it, globally.

Remove unnecessary flex-array member `pad[]` and refactor the related
code a bit.

Fix the following warning:
net/sched/act_ct.c:57:29: warning: structure containing a flexible array member is not at the end of another structure [-Wflex-array-member-not-at-end]

Signed-off-by: Gustavo A. R. Silva <gustavoars@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/ZrY0JMVsImbDbx6r@cute
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>