sr: convert to the atomic queue limits API

sr: convert to the atomic queue limits API

Assign all queue limits through a local queue_limits variable and
queue_limits_commit_update so that we can't race updating them from
multiple places, and free the queue when updating them so that
in-progress I/O submissions don't see half-updated limits.

Also use the chance to clean up variable names to standard ones.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Damien Le Moal <dlemoal@kernel.org>