e1000e: WoL can fail on 82578DM

e1000e: WoL can fail on 82578DM

During suspend, the PHY must be reset for workaround updates to take effect
without restarting auto-negotiation.  Also, set the disable GbE and enable
Low Power Link Up (LPLU) if the EEPROM is configured to do likewise in
either D0 or non-D0a instead of just the latter.

(cherry picked from commit 03299e46c9e857b885bf66c47bebc1bcac5dba55)
Signed-off-by: Bruce Allan <bruce.w.allan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Jeff Pieper <jeffrey.e.pieper@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Joe Jin <joe.jin@oracle.com>