RDMA/core: Add support to optional-counters binding configuration

RDMA/core: Add support to optional-counters binding configuration

Whenever a new counter is created, save inside it the user requested
configuration for optional-counters binding, for manual configuration it
is requested directly by the user and for the automatic configuration it
depends on if the automatic binding was enabled with or without
optional-counters binding.

This argument will later be used by the driver to determine if to bind the
optional-counters as well or not when trying to bind this counter to a QP.

It indicates that when binding counters to a QP we also want the
currently enabled link optional-counters to be bound as well.

Signed-off-by: Patrisious Haddad <phaddad@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/82f1c357606a16932979ef9a5910122675c74a3a.1741875070.git.leon@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>