bridge: mdb: Allow replace of a host-joined group

bridge: mdb: Allow replace of a host-joined group

Attempts to replace an MDB group membership of the host itself are
currently bounced:

 # ip link add name br up type bridge vlan_filtering 1
 # bridge mdb replace dev br port br grp 239.0.0.1 vid 2
 # bridge mdb replace dev br port br grp 239.0.0.1 vid 2
 Error: bridge: Group is already joined by host.

A similar operation done on a member port would succeed. Ignore the check
for replacement of host group memberships as well.

The bit of code that this enables is br_multicast_host_join(), which, for
already-joined groups only refreshes the MC group expiration timer, which
is desirable; and a userspace notification, also desirable.

Change a selftest that exercises this code path from expecting a rejection
to expecting a pass. The rest of MDB selftests pass without modification.

Signed-off-by: Petr Machata <petrm@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <razor@blackwall.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/e5c5188b9787ae806609e7ca3aa2a0a501b9b5c4.1738685648.git.petrm@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>