bcachefs: Fix race leading to btree node write getting stuck

bcachefs: Fix race leading to btree node write getting stuck

Checking btree_node_may_write() isn't atomic with the other btree flags,
dirty and need_write in particular. There was a rare race where we'd
unblock a node from writing while __btree_node_flush() was setting
need_write, and no thread would notice that the node was now both able
to write and needed to be written.

Fix this by adding btree node flags for will_make_reachable and
write_blocked that can be checked in the cmpxchg loop in
__bch2_btree_node_write.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>