perf tools: Add fallback for exclude_guest

perf tools: Add fallback for exclude_guest

Commit 7b100989b4f6bce70 ("perf evlist: Remove __evlist__add_default")
changed to parse "cycles:P" event instead of creating a new cycles
event for perf record.  But it also changed the way how modifiers are
handled so it doesn't set the exclude_guest bit by default.

It seems Apple M1 PMU requires exclude_guest set and returns EOPNOTSUPP
if not.  Let's add a fallback so that it can work with default events.

Also update perf stat hybrid tests to handle possible u or H modifiers.

Reviewed-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Reviewed-by: James Clark <james.clark@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Ravi Bangoria <ravi.bangoria@amd.com>
Acked-by: Kan Liang <kan.liang@linux.intel.com>
Cc: James Clark <james.clark@arm.com>
Cc: Atish Patra <atishp@atishpatra.org>
Cc: Mingwei Zhang <mizhang@google.com>
Cc: Kajol Jain <kjain@linux.ibm.com>
Cc: Thomas Richter <tmricht@linux.ibm.com>
Cc: Palmer Dabbelt <palmer@rivosinc.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20241016062359.264929-2-namhyung@kernel.org
Fixes: 7b100989b4f6bce70 ("perf evlist: Remove __evlist__add_default")
Signed-off-by: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>