md/dm-raid: remove max_write_behind setting limit

md/dm-raid: remove max_write_behind setting limit

The comments said 'vaule in kB', while the value actually means the
number of write_behind IOs. And since md-bitmap will automatically
adjust the value to max COUNTER_MAX / 2, there is no need to fail
early.

Also move some macros that is only used md-bitmap.c.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-raid/20250524061320.370630-15-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com
Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Xiao Ni <xni@redhat.com>