tcp: use RCU in __inet{6}_check_established()

tcp: use RCU in __inet{6}_check_established()

When __inet_hash_connect() has to try many 4-tuples before
finding an available one, we see a high spinlock cost from
__inet_check_established() and/or __inet6_check_established().

This patch adds an RCU lookup to avoid the spinlock
acquisition when the 4-tuple is found in the hash table.

Note that there are still spin_lock_bh() calls in
__inet_hash_connect() to protect inet_bind_hashbucket,
this will be fixed later in this series.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Xing <kerneljasonxing@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Jason Xing <kerneljasonxing@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250302124237.3913746-2-edumazet@google.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>