net/mlx5: E-switch, refactor eswitch mode change

net/mlx5: E-switch, refactor eswitch mode change

The E-switch mode was previously updated before removing and re-adding the
IB device, which could cause a temporary mismatch between the E-switch mode
and the IB device configuration.

To prevent this discrepancy, the IB device is now removed first, then
the E-switch mode is updated, and finally, the IB device is re-added.
This sequence ensures consistent alignment between the E-switch mode and
the IB device whenever the mode changes, regardless of the new mode value.

Signed-off-by: Patrisious Haddad <phaddad@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20241107194357.683732-2-tariqt@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>