block: add a queue_limits_commit_update_frozen helper

block: add a queue_limits_commit_update_frozen helper

Add a helper that freezes the queue, updates the queue limits and
unfreezes the queue and convert all open coded versions of that to the
new helper.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: John Garry <john.g.garry@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Damien Le Moal <dlemoal@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Nilay Shroff <nilay@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <johannes.thumshirn@wdc.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250110054726.1499538-3-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>