net/mlx5: fs, add support for dest vport HWS action

net/mlx5: fs, add support for dest vport HWS action

Add support for HW Steering action of vport destination. Add dest vport
actions cache. Hold action in cache per vport / vport and vhca_id. Add
action to cache on demand and remove on namespace closure to reduce
actions creation and destroy.

Signed-off-by: Moshe Shemesh <moshe@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Yevgeny Kliteynik <kliteyn@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250109160546.1733647-11-tariqt@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>