nvme.h: add RTD3R, RTD3E and OAES fields

nvme.h: add RTD3R, RTD3E and OAES fields

These have been added in NVMe 1.2 and we'll need at least oaes for the
NVMe target driver.

Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Jay Freyensee <james.p.freyensee@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>
(cherry picked from commit 14e974a84e831bf9a44495c7256a6846e7f77630)

Orabug: 25130845

Signed-off-by: Ashok Vairavan <ashok.vairavan@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>