RDS: Idle QoS connections during remote peer reboot causing application brownout

RDS: Idle QoS connections during remote peer reboot causing application brownout

This fix addresses the issue with the idled QoS connection not getting
disconnect event when the remote peer reboots. This is causing delayed
reconnect, hence application brownout when the peer comes online. The fix was
to proactively drop and reconnect them when the base lane is going through
the reconnect to the reboot peer, in effect forcing all the lanes to go
through the reconnect at the same time.

Orabug: 18443194

Signed-off-by: Bang Nguyen <bang.nguyen@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Chien-Hua Yen <chien.yen@oracle.com>
(cherry picked from commit f51ccefb3a0b9485da5cc5f66bb1e311f61bd70b)