vhost-user: allow "vhost_set_vring" to wait for a reply

vhost-user: allow "vhost_set_vring" to wait for a reply

The "vhost_set_vring" function already centralizes the common parts of
"vhost_user_set_vring_num", "vhost_user_set_vring_base" and
"vhost_user_set_vring_enable". We'll want to allow some of those callers
to wait for a reply.

Therefore, rebase "vhost_set_vring" from just "vhost_user_write" to
"vhost_user_write_sync", exposing the "wait_for_reply" parameter.

This is purely refactoring -- there is no observable change. That's
because:

- all three callers pass in "false" for "wait_for_reply", which disables
  all logic in "vhost_user_write_sync" except the call to
  "vhost_user_write";

- the fds=NULL and fd_num=0 arguments of the original "vhost_user_write"
  call inside "vhost_set_vring" are hard-coded within
  "vhost_user_write_sync".

Cc: "Michael S. Tsirkin" <mst@redhat.com> (supporter:vhost)
Cc: Eugenio Perez Martin <eperezma@redhat.com>
Cc: German Maglione <gmaglione@redhat.com>
Cc: Liu Jiang <gerry@linux.alibaba.com>
Cc: Sergio Lopez Pascual <slp@redhat.com>
Cc: Stefano Garzarella <sgarzare@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Laszlo Ersek <lersek@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Philippe Mathieu-Daudé <philmd@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Stefano Garzarella <sgarzare@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Albert Esteve <aesteve@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20231002203221.17241-7-lersek@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>