stddef: make __struct_group() UAPI C++-friendly

stddef: make __struct_group() UAPI C++-friendly

For the most part of the C++ history, it couldn't have type
declarations inside anonymous unions for different reasons. At the
same time, __struct_group() relies on the latters, so when the @TAG
argument is not empty, C++ code doesn't want to build (even under
`extern "C"`):

../linux/include/uapi/linux/pkt_cls.h:25:24: error:
'struct tc_u32_sel::<unnamed union>::tc_u32_sel_hdr,' invalid;
an anonymous union may only have public non-static data members
[-fpermissive]

The safest way to fix this without trying to switch standards (which
is impossible in UAPI anyway) etc., is to disable tag declaration
for that language. This won't break anything since for now it's not
buildable at all.
Use a separate definition for __struct_group() when __cplusplus is
defined to mitigate the error, including the version from tools/.

Fixes: 50d7bd38c3aa ("stddef: Introduce struct_group() helper macro")
Reported-by: Christopher Ferris <cferris@google.com>
Closes: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-hardening/Z1HZpe3WE5As8UAz@google.com
Suggested-by: Kees Cook <kees@kernel.org> # __struct_group_tag()
Signed-off-by: Alexander Lobakin <aleksander.lobakin@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Gustavo A. R. Silva <gustavoars@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20241219135734.2130002-1-aleksander.lobakin@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Kees Cook <kees@kernel.org>