ublk: fix handling recovery & reissue in ublk_abort_queue()

ublk: fix handling recovery & reissue in ublk_abort_queue()

Commit 8284066946e6 ("ublk: grab request reference when the request is handled
by userspace") doesn't grab request reference in case of recovery reissue.
Then the request can be requeued & re-dispatch & failed when canceling
uring command.

If it is one zc request, the request can be freed before io_uring
returns the zc buffer back, then cause kernel panic:

[  126.773061] BUG: kernel NULL pointer dereference, address: 00000000000000c8
[  126.773657] #PF: supervisor read access in kernel mode
[  126.774052] #PF: error_code(0x0000) - not-present page
[  126.774455] PGD 0 P4D 0
[  126.774698] Oops: Oops: 0000 [#1] SMP NOPTI
[  126.775034] CPU: 13 UID: 0 PID: 1612 Comm: kworker/u64:55 Not tainted 6.14.0_blk+ #182 PREEMPT(full)
[  126.775676] Hardware name: QEMU Standard PC (Q35 + ICH9, 2009), BIOS 1.16.3-1.fc39 04/01/2014
[  126.776275] Workqueue: iou_exit io_ring_exit_work
[  126.776651] RIP: 0010:ublk_io_release+0x14/0x130 [ublk_drv]

Fixes it by always grabbing request reference for aborting the request.

Reported-by: Caleb Sander Mateos <csander@purestorage.com>
Closes: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-block/CADUfDZodKfOGUeWrnAxcZiLT+puaZX8jDHoj_sfHZCOZwhzz6A@mail.gmail.com/
Fixes: 8284066946e6 ("ublk: grab request reference when the request is handled by userspace")
Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250409011444.2142010-2-ming.lei@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>