KVM: Grab vcpu->mutex across installing the vCPU's fd and bumping online_vcpus

KVM: Grab vcpu->mutex across installing the vCPU's fd and bumping online_vcpus

During vCPU creation, acquire vcpu->mutex prior to exposing the vCPU to
userspace, and hold the mutex until online_vcpus is bumped, i.e. until the
vCPU is fully online from KVM's perspective.

To ensure asynchronous vCPU ioctls also wait for the vCPU to come online,
explicitly check online_vcpus at the start of kvm_vcpu_ioctl(), and take
the vCPU's mutex to wait if necessary (having to wait for any ioctl should
be exceedingly rare, i.e. not worth optimizing).

Reported-by: Will Deacon <will@kernel.org>
Reported-by: Michal Luczaj <mhal@rbox.co>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/20240730155646.1687-1-will@kernel.org
Acked-by: Will Deacon <will@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20241009150455.1057573-4-seanjc@google.com
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>