vxlan: Add an attribute to make VXLAN header validation configurable

vxlan: Add an attribute to make VXLAN header validation configurable

The set of bits that the VXLAN netdevice currently considers reserved is
defined by the features enabled at the netdevice construction. In order to
make this configurable, add an attribute, IFLA_VXLAN_RESERVED_BITS. The
payload is a pair of big-endian u32's covering the VXLAN header. This is
validated against the set of flags used by the various enabled VXLAN
features, and attempts to override bits used by an enabled feature are
bounced.

Signed-off-by: Petr Machata <petrm@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <razor@blackwall.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/c657275e5ceed301e62c69fe8e559e32909442e2.1733412063.git.petrm@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>