tcp_bpf: Charge receive socket buffer in bpf_tcp_ingress()

tcp_bpf: Charge receive socket buffer in bpf_tcp_ingress()

When bpf_tcp_ingress() is called, the skmsg is being redirected to the
ingress of the destination socket. Therefore, we should charge its
receive socket buffer, instead of sending socket buffer.

Because sk_rmem_schedule() tests pfmemalloc of skb, we need to
introduce a wrapper and call it for skmsg.

Fixes: 604326b41a6f ("bpf, sockmap: convert to generic sk_msg interface")
Signed-off-by: Cong Wang <cong.wang@bytedance.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Reviewed-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20241210012039.1669389-2-zijianzhang@bytedance.com