meson: fix meson 0.58 warning with libvhost-user subproject

meson: fix meson 0.58 warning with libvhost-user subproject

Meson now checks that subprojects do not access files from parent
project. While we all agree this is best practice, libvhost-user also
want to share a few headers with QEMU, and libvhost-user isn't really a
standalone project at this point (although this is making the dependency
a bit more explicit).

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20210505151313.203258-1-marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>