rcuref: Provide rcuref_is_dead()

rcuref: Provide rcuref_is_dead()

rcuref_read() returns the number of references that are currently held.
If 0 is returned then it is not safe to assume that the object ca be
scheduled for deconstruction because it is marked DEAD. This happens if
the return value of rcuref_put() is ignored and assumptions are made.

If 0 is returned then the counter transitioned from 0 to RCUREF_NOREF.
If rcuref_put() did not return to the caller then the counter did not
yet transition from RCUREF_NOREF to RCUREF_DEAD. This means that there
is still a chance that the counter will transition from RCUREF_NOREF to
0 meaning it is still valid and must not be deconstructed. In this brief
window rcuref_read() will return 0.

Provide rcuref_is_dead() to determine if the counter is marked as
RCUREF_DEAD.

Signed-off-by: Sebastian Andrzej Siewior <bigeasy@linutronix.de>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250416162921.513656-2-bigeasy@linutronix.de