i386/xen: implement HVMOP_set_evtchn_upcall_vector

i386/xen: implement HVMOP_set_evtchn_upcall_vector

The HVMOP_set_evtchn_upcall_vector hypercall sets the per-vCPU upcall
vector, to be delivered to the local APIC just like an MSI (with an EOI).

This takes precedence over the system-wide delivery method set by the
HVMOP_set_param hypercall with HVM_PARAM_CALLBACK_IRQ. It's used by
Windows and Xen (PV shim) guests but normally not by Linux.

Signed-off-by: Ankur Arora <ankur.a.arora@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Joao Martins <joao.m.martins@oracle.com>
[dwmw2: Rework for upstream kernel changes and split from HVMOP_set_param]
Signed-off-by: David Woodhouse <dwmw@amazon.co.uk>