gpiolib: support parsing gpio three-cell interrupts scheme

gpiolib: support parsing gpio three-cell interrupts scheme

gpio irq which using three-cell scheme should always call
instance_match() function to find the correct irqdomain.

The select() function will be called with !DOMAIN_BUS_ANY,
so for specific gpio irq driver, it need to set bus token
explicitly, something like:
  irq_domain_update_bus_token(girq->domain, DOMAIN_BUS_WIRED);

Signed-off-by: Yixun Lan <dlan@gentoo.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250408-04-gpio-irq-threecell-v4-1-fd170d5e2d2b@gentoo.org
Signed-off-by: Bartosz Golaszewski <bartosz.golaszewski@linaro.org>