btrfs: move ref specific initialization into init_delayed_ref_common

btrfs: move ref specific initialization into init_delayed_ref_common

Now that the btrfs_delayed_ref_node contains a union of the data and
metadata specific information we can move the initialization into
init_delayed_ref_common and just use the btrfs_ref to initialize the
correct fields of the reference.

Reviewed-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>