io_uring/eventfd: move refs to refcount_t

io_uring/eventfd: move refs to refcount_t

atomic_t for the struct io_ev_fd references and there are no issues with
it. While the ref getting and putting for the eventfd code is somewhat
performance critical for cases where eventfd signaling is used (news
flash, you should not...), it probably doesn't warrant using an atomic_t
for this. Let's just move to it to refcount_t to get the added
protection of over/underflows.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/202409082039.hnsaIJ3X-lkp@intel.com/
Reported-by: kernel test robot <lkp@intel.com>
Closes: https://lore.kernel.org/oe-kbuild-all/202409082039.hnsaIJ3X-lkp@intel.com/
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>