ublk: add ublk_force_abort_dev()

ublk: add ublk_force_abort_dev()

Add ublk_force_abort_dev() for handling ublk_nosrv_dev_should_queue_io()
in ublk_stop_dev(). Then queue quiesce and unquiesce can be paired in
single function.

Meantime not change device state to QUIESCED any more, since the disk is
going to be removed soon.

Reviewed-by: Uday Shankar <ushankar@purestorage.com>
Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250416035444.99569-3-ming.lei@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>